W back again, another
Valentines Day has gone by and good riddance. The only people who are happy on V-day are women in relationships.
The women not in relationships are made to feel left out and that something is wrong with them. Same with Men out of relationships, but on top of it some, in a
humiliating attempt to "fit in", try and use the day to "make it happen" with the appropriate partner. Usually resulting in a complete crash and burn and demoralizing them even more.
Men in relationships have it worse. Unless you have a partner who is just as uninvolved in the pseudo-holiday as you (thank you E), then you are made to feel that you have to perform on this day. You are weighted down with unfair expectation involving gift giving, staging events and trying to live up to
Hollywood inspired expectations.
Now before all the women start with the "I bought a card for my man" stuff. I agree you may have
reciprocated however the pressure for you to perform wasn't there. If you do not believe me just listen to the talk now, the day after. Everyone asks the woman "What did he do for you?" "What did he get for you?". The man gets asked "What did you do for her?" "What did you get her?" Thus the expectations the man faces. The day is not about showing mutual love, giving and taking, but about men trying to one up each other so women can brag.
Thank you Hallmark for creating this bogus holiday to increase your sagging cards sales between Christmas and Easter.